Divorced with kids dating
I'd consider seeking counseling before making a commitment. But at least my daughter and I live in peace now without yelling and abuse, Well my ex's girlfriend definitely doesn't need to be mad about the spending time with kids part--becuz my ex no longer gets them for visitation anymore.
After he moved in with the tramp he no longer picks them up for weekend visits, instead he comes during the week (every other week) takes them out to dinner and spends a whole hour with them--dad of the freakin' year!! So the only thing she can bitch about is the no money thing--becuz he's paying support and after I get thru with him on the sale of this house--he'll be taking the loss on our house to which will leave him in the hole big time and gee--do ya think she'll want to pay to get him out of debt!! Better luck to her, becuz I'm glad I'm thru with his sorry ass, just wish I was done with him forever!!
I am the child of a divorce as well as have counselled many with children.
Here are some considerations as relates to the children of a divorce: Spend time with your children Spend time with your child (children) to bring as much stability to their lives as you can.
You may have to check several out before you find a fit for your children, but this can be a great asset for you.
Seek out classes/books relating to single parenting from a Christian perspective.
Any decent man will put his kids first before your relationship.
If you are not willing to accept the baggage that comes with dating a divorced man you should date someone who has never been married.
You knew about his obligations to his children before you married him.
The kids can be manipulative as she is at times and after years of being used as live bait, Well lets see who they grow into.
But I can honestly say after seeing all this and going through this I now think twice when I hear a man being bashed for walking away from thier kids. What situation is better for them when you go with out, do everything you can and still are nothing but a plane ticket and a disrespected pawn?
If you are dating a divorced man with children, you need to fully understand what you are getting yourself into.
It irks me when women date a divorced man and then complain that their boyfriend is paying too much child support and alimony. You have to expect that if your boyfriend has an ex-wife and kids, he must fulfill his financial and parental obligations to his first family.They both cheated on their spouses to be together and now they are --so more power to them!!